Chores for 8-year-olds
Quick answer
Many 8-year-olds are ready for their first bigger jobs: unloading the dishwasher (sharp knives removed by an adult), vacuuming one room, folding towels, making their bed, and taking out the trash. Show each job once and stay nearby. Kids vary, so add one big job at a time.
Moving from small tasks to whole jobs
At this age a chore can have a clear start and a clear finish, such as "vacuum the living room" or "empty the dishwasher." Whole jobs give a child something to be proud of, and they free up your time.
Teach each big job in three rounds: you do it while they watch, you do it together, then they do it while you watch from the next room.
Weekly and daily jobs
| Job | Daily or weekly | Teaching note |
|---|---|---|
| Make the bed | Daily | Tuck in the sheet corners |
| Unload the dishwasher | Daily | Adult removes sharp knives first |
| Set and clear the table | Daily | Wipe it with a damp cloth |
| Feed the pet | Daily | Measure the portion |
| Brush teeth and pack the bag | Daily | Check the chart |
| Vacuum one room | Weekly | Show how to move small objects first |
| Fold and put away towels | Weekly | Fold in thirds |
| Take out the trash | Weekly | Wash hands afterward |
| Sweep the kitchen floor | Weekly | Use a dustpan and brush |
Teaching the dishwasher and the vacuum
- Take out any knives and sharp items yourself before your child starts.
- Sort cutlery by type into the drawer.
- Unload the bottom rack first, then the top, so drips from cups do not land on dry dishes.
- For the vacuum, pick up cords and small items first.
- Vacuum in slow lines, then switch it off and wrap the cord with you watching.
Our guides to unloading the dishwasher and vacuuming go step by step. Vacuum cleaners have cords and moving parts, so stay nearby the first few times.
Big-jobs chart, age 8
| Chore | Mon | Tue | Wed | Thu | Fri | Sat | Sun |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Make the bed | |||||||
| Unload the dishwasher | |||||||
| Set and clear the table | |||||||
| Feed the pet | |||||||
| Vacuum one roomonce this week | |||||||
| Take out the trashonce this week | |||||||
| Fold the towelsonce this week |
When a big job goes wrong
A half-vacuumed rug or a dishwasher with the cups upside down is normal early on. Show the fix once, calmly, and let them try again the next day. Redoing it behind their back can tell them the job does not matter.
- Praise the part that was right.
- Ask them to tell you the steps back, in their own words.
- Reduce the job (one room, top rack) rather than drop it.
Pace the week so big jobs do not pile up. A common rhythm is one large job per school day and the rest on the weekend, so no single evening feels heavy.
Allowance at eight
Among Dutch 8-year-olds, €1.90 to €2.80 a week is the typical range in Nibud's 2023 data. If you pay, a common approach is a flat weekly amount plus a few extra-paid jobs. Read allowance for 8-year-olds for ways to set it up.
Where to go from here
If vacuuming goes badly, one room is enough. Chores for 7-year-olds has easier options. When these jobs feel routine, look at chores for 9-year-olds.
Questions parents ask
Can an 8-year-old unload the dishwasher?
Many can, once you have shown them. An adult should take out knives and anything sharp first, and you should stay nearby the first few times.
Can an 8-year-old use the vacuum alone?
Many can after a few practice rounds. Pick up cords and small items first, and stay within earshot.
How many chores should an 8-year-old have?
Three to five daily jobs plus one or two weekly jobs is a common range. Adjust for school and activities.
Should an 8-year-old be paid for chores?
It is your call. Some families pay a flat allowance and add pay for extra jobs. Others pay nothing.
Sources
- Nibud, Zakgeld: Typical amounts Dutch kids get, and age 6 as a common starting point because kids can recognize the different coins.